How To Harness The Moon In Gemini

When you actively take in what another person is articulating, you create a space for sharing. That’s especially important with the December 2021 Gemini full moon since one day later, harmonizing Venus turns retrograde for six weeks, ratcheting up relationship tension.

How you listen matters too. You can be a clear channel or one that’s cluttered with judgment. (May we suggest the former?) For example: “I already know what they’re gonna say, so why don’t I finish their sentence?” is not a practice of active listening. Challenge yourself to pause for a (slightly uncomfortable) amount of time before responding. For all you know, the best line may still be coming. 

Since Gemini rules the hands, don’t be shy about gesticulating, either. Be direct about clearing up any misunderstandings. Sit people down and ask thoughtful questions to draw them out. Instead of mentally crafting a response while people talk, give them the opportunity to be seen and heard. We’re all familiar with post-conversation exhaustion—what happens when someone has monopolized the entire dialogue. Give what you want to receive: the attentive, thoughtful, engaged, and sincere listening that you desire.